5 thoughts on “The 31 -year -old son is a high school student for the elderly mother. What can you do for your parents?”
Jackie
The 31 -year -old son was a high school student for the elderly mother, and was very moved when he saw this topic. Because we often say that you grow up with me, I am old. But in fact, because of the work, many people are not easy to see a few times a year, so let's not say what to do for parents? But the Internet is also particularly convenient, so we can also do a lot of things for parents through the Internet, such as: 1. Change to parents for smart phones and tell them that this is a call without money. As long as we want to see us, we can communicate face -to -face, but this requires us to install WIFI at home in advance. Now it is also cheap to move the WiFi package. For example, the 59 package can be installed for free. 2. I often go home and take a look. In fact, parents are not small. Generally, our parents are 50 or 60 years old, so they often go home to see when they are free. 3. It is recommended that you do n’t marry far away. After all, marrying is not only an economic problem, but it may not be easy to return to the mother's house in the future, because if you marry a long marriage, you have to drag your family once. For parents, children are also a kind of happiness around me. For example, when I marry the local area, I will call me if they have any delicious one after a bowl of soup. The close relationship makes me get along with my parents very friendly. 4. Often found the psychological needs of parents, such as what do they want to eat? You can buy everything for your parents, but under this premise, we need to work hard. After all, we can give parents better economic conditions. of course, life needs planning, planning our lives can we live better.
The 31 -year -old Mr. Wang's mother suffers from Alzheimer's, and memory only stays in his son's high school. In order to coax his mother, Mr. Wang put on high school school uniforms to play himself in high school: every morning at 6:30 in the morning, at night at night, at night in the evening, at night Self -study at 9:30 and relive their high school life with my mother. This move moved a lot of netizens and couldn't help but let me reflect on myself. Now I can do what I can do for my parents. It said that parents are watching their children away, and the time to get along with parents can only be less and less. What parents most hope are that we can give them companionship, but in addition to accompanying, what can we do for our parents? 1. Take your parents to do a body test. Parents are older, and the disease is often very concealed. Only early discovery can be treated early, allowing parents to strengthen their understanding of their physical and functional conditions, improve bad living habits in a timely manner, and improve the level of health. Therefore, it is necessary to take a parental body test once; 2, care about the life of parents, understand what parents need, and buy reliable things for parents. In fact, our parents do not have the ability to dig information. They are often coaxed by merchants to buy things that are not applicable, so we still have to check our parents. 3, the most important thing is to take the initiative to tell their parents about their current situation, because parents are still most worried about their children. Don't think that our parents can't get in. In fact, parents are really thoughtful. Raising a hundred years old, ninety -nine, told them to dispel their concerns. Is when my parents need it most, I will not be absent, because even if I am busy, I will not be too busy to do these things for my parents.
Seeing the news, a thirty -one -year -old son, in order to meet the psychological needs of a mother with Alzheimer's disease, has always appeared as a high school student and coaxed his mother to be happy. This story is also in history. In the middle, I did not expect that there is such a filial son in society. This son is easy to say, but it is not easy to sit up. What can I do for my mother as my son? I think it is mainly done from these aspects. The first point: try to meet the mother's requirements. Mother is expensive, this is the pursuit of most mothers' lives, so during the study period, I have been working hard to learn from the school's three good students every year. There has been high expectations in the future. The second point: whether to go out to study or work in other places, I have always reassured my mother. The child is worried about her mother, no matter how old the children grow, they are always a child in the eyes of my mother, so when I do things, I will pay attention to safety and deal with everything calmly. Try not to put themselves in danger. I have always been very good, and my heart is less worried, my mood is good, my body is healthy. Third point: always express your care for his mother. After growing up, because I have been working in the field, I have less time to think of my mother, so I will communicate with my mother through calling, video through video, etc. every week. Listen, don't let your mother feel lonely and lonely. Fourth point: I often go home. As long as I have time, I will go home. Even if I only stay at home for half an hour, I will rush back to meet my mother. In fact, when the mother's body is healthy, I should try to get along with my mother as much as possible. Fifth point: Work hard to earn money, try to get his mother with him early, and live together. The age of the mother is gradually getting bigger. The direction of efforts at this stage.
Parents can give everything for their children, even life. But the children do it for their parents. So we said, "For children, all generations are not clear about their parents." The filial son mentioned in the question, dressed up high school students for the elderly mother. How many such sons can there be? As my mother's little daughter, I can do a lot of things for my mother. Unfortunately, it is too far away, and many things are not done well. This makes me very ashamed and feels sorry for the elderly mother. Under the existing conditions, I go back to my hometown to visit my mother once as much as possible. The place where I work is 280 kilometers away from my mother's house. There are high -speed rail now, and it is much more convenient to go home. In order to accompany my mother, I strive to go home once. When I got home, I rarely went out to find my classmates or friends. I just used a little more time to accompany my mother to buy food and cook, and accompany her to chat and chat. Most of the time, I had something to say with my mother. I like to listen to my mother about her past, and hope I can record it. I am also willing to tell my mother about my vision when traveling. Tell her about the interesting things between her classmates and friends. Let your mother know more about the outside world. I will do my best to give my mother pocket money. My mother has always been frugal. She won't spend a penny easily. In order to make her mother eat well and dress well, in addition to going home to help her buy more things home, she also wants to give her more money. Do not let her feel that it is not enough. I am far away from home and I can't accompany my mother at home every day. If I can't force me, I will pay more money. I know that money cannot be accompanied, but there is no way. Fortunately, there are a few children around my mother, so that I am a little relieved in the distance. My fifth brother went home every day to cook for my mother and eat with her. I am really grateful to him. What makes me feel relieved: Now that my mother is not good at her body, everything else is good. The daughter of my mother, I can do a lot, a lot, and may not do well. I will work hard in the future.
Seeing this news, my heart was very moved. Think back, what can we do for our parents? First of all, I think the most important thing is to help parents who are getting older to find the fun in life. The most terrible thing in this life is not the old age, but to have no enthusiasm for life. After the retirement of parents, the work of retirement is often relatively boring. Many times, they are immersed in family life trivial matters and become more nagging. We should help parents find more possibilities and let them rejuvenate. For example, if parents like to read and read newspapers, they can open a public account for them. It is also excellent to write some insights in their spare time. For example, parents are more lively, and they can encourage them to participate in the square dance activities or learn a musical instrument. This regardless of whether It is physical or mentally good. Secondly, the best thing to do is to accompany. As we grow older, the burden on our shoulders is getting heavier, we need to bear more and more responsibilities, busy work, and rarely have time to accompany our parents. In fact, the most lacking of parents is our company. If time and money permit, we must give up those unnecessary entertainment and try to as much as possible. Even if you just chat with them, or make a simple meal, It is also the best gift. Finally, with the allowed parents' health, accompany them to travel. In the world, we can't fully appreciate the style of this world in our life. Parents are the most time now. If the health state allows, take them to feel the outside world as much as possible. It is very helpful to the body and mind.
The 31 -year -old son was a high school student for the elderly mother, and was very moved when he saw this topic.
Because we often say that you grow up with me, I am old. But in fact, because of the work, many people are not easy to see a few times a year, so let's not say what to do for parents?
But the Internet is also particularly convenient, so we can also do a lot of things for parents through the Internet, such as:
1. Change to parents for smart phones and tell them that this is a call without money. As long as we want to see us, we can communicate face -to -face, but this requires us to install WIFI at home in advance. Now it is also cheap to move the WiFi package. For example, the 59 package can be installed for free.
2. I often go home and take a look. In fact, parents are not small. Generally, our parents are 50 or 60 years old, so they often go home to see when they are free.
3. It is recommended that you do n’t marry far away. After all, marrying is not only an economic problem, but it may not be easy to return to the mother's house in the future, because if you marry a long marriage, you have to drag your family once.
For parents, children are also a kind of happiness around me. For example, when I marry the local area, I will call me if they have any delicious one after a bowl of soup. The close relationship makes me get along with my parents very friendly.
4. Often found the psychological needs of parents, such as what do they want to eat? You can buy everything for your parents, but under this premise, we need to work hard. After all, we can give parents better economic conditions.
of course, life needs planning, planning our lives can we live better.
The 31 -year -old Mr. Wang's mother suffers from Alzheimer's, and memory only stays in his son's high school. In order to coax his mother, Mr. Wang put on high school school uniforms to play himself in high school: every morning at 6:30 in the morning, at night at night, at night in the evening, at night Self -study at 9:30 and relive their high school life with my mother. This move moved a lot of netizens and couldn't help but let me reflect on myself. Now I can do what I can do for my parents.
It said that parents are watching their children away, and the time to get along with parents can only be less and less. What parents most hope are that we can give them companionship, but in addition to accompanying, what can we do for our parents?
1. Take your parents to do a body test. Parents are older, and the disease is often very concealed. Only early discovery can be treated early, allowing parents to strengthen their understanding of their physical and functional conditions, improve bad living habits in a timely manner, and improve the level of health. Therefore, it is necessary to take a parental body test once;
2, care about the life of parents, understand what parents need, and buy reliable things for parents. In fact, our parents do not have the ability to dig information. They are often coaxed by merchants to buy things that are not applicable, so we still have to check our parents.
3, the most important thing is to take the initiative to tell their parents about their current situation, because parents are still most worried about their children. Don't think that our parents can't get in. In fact, parents are really thoughtful. Raising a hundred years old, ninety -nine, told them to dispel their concerns.
Is when my parents need it most, I will not be absent, because even if I am busy, I will not be too busy to do these things for my parents.
Seeing the news, a thirty -one -year -old son, in order to meet the psychological needs of a mother with Alzheimer's disease, has always appeared as a high school student and coaxed his mother to be happy. This story is also in history. In the middle, I did not expect that there is such a filial son in society.
This son is easy to say, but it is not easy to sit up. What can I do for my mother as my son? I think it is mainly done from these aspects.
The first point: try to meet the mother's requirements. Mother is expensive, this is the pursuit of most mothers' lives, so during the study period, I have been working hard to learn from the school's three good students every year. There has been high expectations in the future.
The second point: whether to go out to study or work in other places, I have always reassured my mother. The child is worried about her mother, no matter how old the children grow, they are always a child in the eyes of my mother, so when I do things, I will pay attention to safety and deal with everything calmly. Try not to put themselves in danger. I have always been very good, and my heart is less worried, my mood is good, my body is healthy.
Third point: always express your care for his mother. After growing up, because I have been working in the field, I have less time to think of my mother, so I will communicate with my mother through calling, video through video, etc. every week. Listen, don't let your mother feel lonely and lonely. Fourth point: I often go home. As long as I have time, I will go home. Even if I only stay at home for half an hour, I will rush back to meet my mother. In fact, when the mother's body is healthy, I should try to get along with my mother as much as possible.
Fifth point: Work hard to earn money, try to get his mother with him early, and live together. The age of the mother is gradually getting bigger. The direction of efforts at this stage.
Parents can give everything for their children, even life. But the children do it for their parents. So we said, "For children, all generations are not clear about their parents."
The filial son mentioned in the question, dressed up high school students for the elderly mother. How many such sons can there be? As my mother's little daughter, I can do a lot of things for my mother. Unfortunately, it is too far away, and many things are not done well. This makes me very ashamed and feels sorry for the elderly mother.
Under the existing conditions, I go back to my hometown to visit my mother once as much as possible. The place where I work is 280 kilometers away from my mother's house. There are high -speed rail now, and it is much more convenient to go home. In order to accompany my mother, I strive to go home once. When I got home, I rarely went out to find my classmates or friends. I just used a little more time to accompany my mother to buy food and cook, and accompany her to chat and chat.
Most of the time, I had something to say with my mother. I like to listen to my mother about her past, and hope I can record it. I am also willing to tell my mother about my vision when traveling. Tell her about the interesting things between her classmates and friends. Let your mother know more about the outside world.
I will do my best to give my mother pocket money. My mother has always been frugal. She won't spend a penny easily. In order to make her mother eat well and dress well, in addition to going home to help her buy more things home, she also wants to give her more money. Do not let her feel that it is not enough. I am far away from home and I can't accompany my mother at home every day. If I can't force me, I will pay more money. I know that money cannot be accompanied, but there is no way.
Fortunately, there are a few children around my mother, so that I am a little relieved in the distance. My fifth brother went home every day to cook for my mother and eat with her. I am really grateful to him. What makes me feel relieved: Now that my mother is not good at her body, everything else is good.
The daughter of my mother, I can do a lot, a lot, and may not do well. I will work hard in the future.
Seeing this news, my heart was very moved. Think back, what can we do for our parents?
First of all, I think the most important thing is to help parents who are getting older to find the fun in life. The most terrible thing in this life is not the old age, but to have no enthusiasm for life. After the retirement of parents, the work of retirement is often relatively boring. Many times, they are immersed in family life trivial matters and become more nagging. We should help parents find more possibilities and let them rejuvenate. For example, if parents like to read and read newspapers, they can open a public account for them. It is also excellent to write some insights in their spare time. For example, parents are more lively, and they can encourage them to participate in the square dance activities or learn a musical instrument. This regardless of whether It is physical or mentally good.
Secondly, the best thing to do is to accompany. As we grow older, the burden on our shoulders is getting heavier, we need to bear more and more responsibilities, busy work, and rarely have time to accompany our parents. In fact, the most lacking of parents is our company. If time and money permit, we must give up those unnecessary entertainment and try to as much as possible. Even if you just chat with them, or make a simple meal, It is also the best gift.
Finally, with the allowed parents' health, accompany them to travel. In the world, we can't fully appreciate the style of this world in our life. Parents are the most time now. If the health state allows, take them to feel the outside world as much as possible. It is very helpful to the body and mind.